Why Girls always choose the Bad Boys

They get attracted by the confidence of the bad boy. By being a bad boy I understand that the guy just behaves more the way he wants (which seems to be selfish) than by the way is expected by other people. In the opposite, the good man behaves the way it is expected.

After some experience and observation about people’s behaviour I think that we have always to put aside what is commonly said and verify the facts.

Many women describe a good guy as it was what they want for a relationship, but in fact, they don’t really want it.

You have to look carefully to what make them interested in the bad boy, instead of a good guy:

1. the bad boy is confident.
2. the bad boy puts himself first, this diminishes the girl and works well for him. Because we all look for things that look better for ourselves. When the guy stands in a way that he looks better, he gets more valued.
3. bad boys have more than one girlfriend or they are not attached to one girlfriend. It really works with women, as much you have around you, more you are going to get.
4. the bad boy is not really invested and he never looks really in need for it. This also creates a feeling of power around him.
5. when they are with the bad boy they get attention too.

Why good guys are not always interesting:

1. sometimes they are serious guys: many girls don’t like it because they think they will be judged or controlled.
2. they were raised to be a good guy in the expectation that women will value them because that. It means that the good things they do have a price.
3. the good guy are not so communicative and confident or he is shy. Many people that are very communicative are in fact manipulative. But, in practical ways, it does work.
4. they don’t create the emotions that women are looking for.

Then, if you look at that list, you will see that choosing the bad boy is not rational and that is the thing. It is not rational at all. The person who educated you may created this illusion that being a good guy would pay off. But it means nothing, because the things just doesn’t work that way.